Ban ‘suicide chat rooms’
The father of an 18-year-old, who accessed "suicide chat rooms" on the internet before killing himself, has called for a law to ban them in the UK.
Six years after his son Simon Kelly died, Paul Kelly is still angry that although UK law makes it illegal to offer advice to those contemplating suicide, no-one has actually ever been successfully prosecuted for it. Such sites – of which there are hundreds – are strictly non-interventionist, which angers Mr. Kelly further because he believes someone should have tried to talk his son out of killing himself.
A transcript of Simon’s conversation on the site before killing himself has been released and which reveals that Simon was told by another user to “go out and see the stars.” Simon’s response was, ‘see you on the other side”. Another chat room user wished Simon farewell, while another said “happy bus ride”- the term used by users of such sites to imply committing suicide. Simon’s father belief that the chat room users could have talked his son out of suicide is evidenced by another segment of the transcript where users discuss not to inform anyone of Simon’s death because other wise they would be “nagged” by questions.
UK law, as it stands, demonstrates that it is illegal to assist or attempt to assist suicide online and the Law Commission has concluded recently that the law is able to deal with such offenses.
But none of the site users had been prosecuted for the role they played in Simon’s death.
The counter argument is that any prosecution would depend on proving that the website or chat room directly helped cause a person’s death- which is quite an arduous task to fulfill. Promoters of the chatrooms even go as far as to argue that these chatrooms provide comfort to those who are suicidal. But for a father who has just lost his son, such reasoning seems absurd.
And he is not the only one facing this struggle. Similar incident have occurred around all around the world – recently in Japan the Internet has been blamed for a spate of group suicides, which appear to have been arranged in online chatrooms. The question facing of governments in countries like the UK and Japan is whether to appreciate people’s freedom of speech or take charge to stop this surge of online suicides.
This incident brings up an interesting question on the ethics involved in Internet filtering – governments have never hesitated in filtering information off the Internet which have posed a threat to national security – is this then not a threat?
However, how can a government then guarantee that banning such websites will be able to subdue the spurt of suicides in the country? And in Simon’s case no one knows whether it was the incitation of the users in the chat rooms that pushed him over the edge or his own independent decision.
-Kanupriya Tewari

Free Speech
I know you are in the UK and have different laws, but banning any form of free speech should not be done. I whole-heartedly mourn for your loss, but free speech is one of the most important basic rights that all humans should have. Allowing control of any form of speech is allowing control of all free speech.
Not only that, how do you define a suicide chat room? Maybe they will start banning anything that has to do with suicide altogether, including rooms that are designed to support persons with suicidal thoughts.
Please, I beg you, reconsider what you are asking.
I would be willing to discuss further. If you feel like contacting me, you can reach me at twreplogle(at)gmail(dot)com.
Yes,I agree with you and the
Yes,I agree with you and the rules may differ country to country. So banning should be banned as of now as Every individual has the freedom of speech and he can speak anything but it shouldnt hurt anyone.
Thank you
Banning is the best option
I must say that Ban spreading such ideas over internet will be the best idea. But, it is really hard(may be impossible) to find all the websites which is doing such activities. Because, every second a new site being created and hosted.
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Hey, the rules in all the
Hey, the rules in all the countries are not the same. Free speech chat rooms are very important for communication. I best thing that could be done is to control ourselves and stay away from these suicide chat rooms & parents must supervise which site their children are visiting & what are they doing.
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The rules are not the same
The rules are not the same in every country. So before banning free speech sources talk to someone who knows the laws. Free speech sources are a great means of communication at present time. Banning would not be a good idea.
Good action
I strongly agree with you that the "suicide chat rooms" should be banned. It may be difficult to ban such website over internet. But governments of each country can talk and find a way to solve the issue.
I'm going to step in here
I'm going to step in here with a bit of logic and some really basic psychology.
Fact is, no one can make you do anything. Ever. Sure they can influence you through physical or verbal means, but it's -you- who's made that decision.
It's not the chat room that made that kid commit suicide. It was the kid.
Stop blaming other people for your problems and learn how to raise your own god damned children. Jesus.
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